Emotional Incest

      Relationships take an incredible amount of energy and effort in order to be healthy, fruitful, and [equally] beneficial.  Adding emotional incest takes a toll that many do not speak about or do not properly articulate.  Unsure of what I mean?  Most often, one will notice emotional incest generated by the mothers of sons.  There is a subset of women who look at their sons as either: their property, or their significant other.  Don't think so? Ever encountered a woman who proudly and loudly proclaims that they are (and will forever be) the NUMBER ONE LADY in their son's life? Ever encountered a woman that becomes [easily] jealous of their sons' partners? Have you ever witnessed a mother [actively] work to destroy ANY relationships that their sons enter into [romantically]? That is emotional incest.

     These women DO NOT view their sons as their children.  They see them as the men of the house...the men in their lives...their equal.  They maneuver through life EXPECTING their sons to care for their needs, whims, desires, etc. at all times.  They EXPECT to be a priority over all else in the lives of those that they birthed.  

     Nothing seems to be able to cease their behavior, outside of their precious "men" deciding to cut all ties and choosing no contact.  Bringing it to their attention, and/or informing them of how inappropriate their behavior and thought patterns are does nothing more than increase their defensiveness.  This subset of mothers truly believes that NO OTHER female presence is needed in the lives of their sons. According to their thought process, they have created and cultivated the ideal man for them.  

    Society has let them down in regards to romance and protection, leaving them to find what they desire in their male offspring.  It doesn't matter if they begot one sone or 10.  They may attach in this manner to one, some, or all.  Marital status does not alter this in any way.  A mother can be actively dating, married, engaged, or single and they will still be deep within the bowels of emotional incest.

     No matter how much they may love their mates, they see perfection in their sons which causes them to believe that NO ONE is good enough for them.  That ONLY they are going to be a "good fit", an ideal caregiver, and equally yoked with their spawn.  Their entire existence is based on their sons, their accomplishments, and their attention.

      Moreover, if a man is unwilling or unable to notice and escape the emotional incest of his mother...RUN.  There will be NO peace in the relationship.  Every special moment will be hijacked by her with faux emergencies or daunting tasks that will consume said time.  There is no escape other than taking nite at the start of engagement and IMMEDIATE retreat.  You WILL not outmaneuver her.  You cannot outdo her.  You can NOT point out her crazed behavior.  They will just be drawn closer together and you will [simply] ensure your villain origin story.   

     There is NO need for you to endure [emotional] struggle love or disrespect within your union.  They have a relationship and bond that can only be broken by the parties involved.  Far too many men do not recognize that their mothers are enthralled within the confines of emotional incest, therefore getting them to see it is futile.  Additionally, it is NOT your job nor is it your plight in life to fix any man walking about the earth.  Protect your peace and avoid emotional incest riddled situations as if they are the first coming of the zombie apocalypse.

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