If a Woman Can't Raise a Man, How Can You Determine What Makes a Woman?

     

     For DECADES men have (and still) stand fast in their argument that there is NO WAY for a woman to be able to raise a boy to be a man.  They have recently doubled down claiming that women cannot determine what makes a man a man.  On the surface, there appears to be nothing [truly] wrong with this assessment, right?  That is...until you take a closer look at their adjacent arguments.  Men will (with their entire chests) tell women what makes a woman a woman and where her value resides.  

     How sway? HOW?!

     Each and every time I hear a man telling us what mold were are to fit into in order to be deemed a woman in their eyes, I wonder, "Is he trying to even the playing ground in order to compete for the crown of ultimate woman?" I mean, when we state what we are LOOKING for or what we REQUIRE from a man, we are told that we are being masculine and trying to be the man. 😏

     Men will pack their baggage and move into the business of women and tell US how to be better and more of a woman while they allow themselves, friends, and family, to remain children floating through life.  Men will REFUSE to deal with their mommy issues, daddy issues, relationship traumas, insecurities, and more while projecting them onto women in the hopes of forcing a mold of their ideal punching bag/caretaker.  While we (women) are looking for PARTNERS, men are looking for a therapist, financial advisor, buddy, and/or personal chef with whom they can consensually engage in coitus.  

     Let's face it...if men have NOTHING else, they have a Costco supply of mancasity and hypocrisy. 

 

     All in all, MEN, do us all a favor...unless you are trying to jump into the realm of womanhood, move back into your lane.  We DO NOT have to mirror your miserable mommas and big mommas in order to have value.  Our endgame is NOT (always) marriage and/or children.  We DO NOT need your money or your genitalia in order to be fulfilled.  The sisters are doing it for themselves.  You know...like you asked us through arguments, sermons, songs, conferences, and conversations.  

    How about you FINALLY decide to evolve and equally yoke yourself for healthy, happy, ADULT relations within the world that has moved past you (presently).