It's NOT up to the Victim to be the Problem Solver

     

     Recently, an online stalker of mine has resurfaced.  While trying to chronicle her antics, some people tell me to block and ignore her. Let us take a look at why.  1. Why is she not being told to block and leave me alone? She is a white woman who is automatically perceived to be the victim and not the victimized.  Additionally, it is far too engrained into people that Black women are to exist for the comfort of white women.  That we must contort for their sanity.  We must bear the brunt of their accountability so that they can remain the center of damselhood.  😏 2. We reside is a very "victim solve the issue" heavy society.  We rarely look to perpetrators to resolve the reasonings behind attacks and/or abuse.  We are conditioned to place the onus on those who are on the receiving end of terror to correct their behavior/actions.  3. Individualism makes the situations minuscule to others because it is not happening to them.  Therefore they want a resolution that gives them the illusion of completion so that they can move on sans guilt.  

    None of this is a help or comfort to the person being used as target practice for another's unregulated emotions.  

     With that being said...let us dive into the most prevalent issue that is arising during this cycle of cyberstalking...the excuses being afforded to the Anglo aggressor.  

"She's just using you for content."

"I've seen other people make content from comments." (Said as she was spamming me by tagging me in random videos).

"She is simply rage-baiting."

"Just block her."  (Said after I had stated multiple times that for every account I block, 3 more arise.  Also, this woman is claiming that I am a danger to her.... which comes with a price on my head).

"Just ignore her."

     This woman has weaponized disabilities as a measure of portraying me as a villain who chose her "out of thin air" to attack her life and livelihood.  All this while SIMULTANEOUSLY harassing me and anyone that she believes that she can sway into her corner.  She is DELIBERATE in the narratives and tones that she uses depending on the audience that she places herself before.  She began this in March and will delete accounts...lay low....then reemerge and repost old videos and screenshots with an adapted origin story for the sole purpose of harassing me.  

    Given how methodical she [obviously] is...why are excuses being garnered onto her? She blissfully doxxed another creator and attempted to scam people.  Yet, some are CHOOSING to downplay the danger that she poses.  She is not engaging in this behavior for clout or clicks.  She is the type of racist white woman that needs to damage the marginalized while pretending to be the "savior of savages".  Her goal is to appear to stand on the right side of history to fellow female racists while eliminating anyone from the global majority who does what she CLAIMS to do.

    She is the type of racist who blames minorities for her life not taking the path that she desires and instead of doing the work, she claims the accomplishments and attacks anyone outside of her community that embodies it.  

Before you think that I am reaching...let us chat further...

     Look at her current profiles.  Her only original content is her bashing me or other Black creators by using videos of marginalized creators as canon fodor.  She also downloads and uploads the work of the marginalized as a shield.  She will not and cannot use her face and words to discuss what she pretends to stand for.  She is aware that she can't [fully] cloak her racism, so she uses already targeted people as her force field from accountability.  On a small scale...it is working for her.  Some white women are backing her.  

    Additionally, she is employing the tactic of fatigue.  When she randomly tags and follows people who are in support of me, it is her hope that they distance from me to avoid her.  What excuses do you have for her now? What is the advice for me now?  Is it still on my shoulders to remedy her obsession?