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It's NOT up to the Victim to be the Problem Solver

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           Recently, an online stalker of mine has resurfaced.  While trying to chronicle her antics, some people tell me to block and ignore her. Let us take a look at why.  1. Why is she not being told to block and leave me alone? She is a white woman who is automatically perceived to be the victim and not the victimized.  Additionally, it is far too engrained into people that Black women are to exist for the comfort of white women.  That we must contort for their sanity.  We must bear the brunt of their accountability so that they can remain the center of damselhood.  😏 2. We reside is a very "victim solve the issue" heavy society.  We rarely look to perpetrators to resolve the reasonings behind attacks and/or abuse.  We are conditioned to place the onus on those who are on the receiving end of terror to correct their behavior/actions.  3. Individualism makes the situations minuscule to others because it is n...

Comparing to Conceal

           Unless you have chosen to cosplay Patrick Starr and reside under a rock...you are firmly aware of the (common) tactic of racists...comparing POC (people of color) to conceal their own racism.  Instead of staying on topic and engaging in productive dialogue, they take the road brimming with deadlock... the highway to compare to conceal.  😏 Not quite understanding where I am coming from? Let us begin the breakdown.      I am certain that you have seen (predominately) Black people discussing our lived experiences regarding anti-Blackness, oppression, etc, and then [seemingly] "out of thin air" a European-American enters and says something along the lines of ---"[another] community doesn't complain/whine/cry about [insert topic here].  WWWWWWWWHHHHHHYYYYYYYY? Deflection at its most mediocre, due to discussing the actuality of life is too uncomfortable for [far too many of] them.  This is nothing more than a method ...