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What to Leave in 2022

      As we sashay into 2023, it is BEYOND time to CEASE with the resolutions and simply begin to LEAVE things behind in the new year and take on what will bring us peace and happiness.      Let me start you off with the following: Leave behind TOXIC family members. - There is NO reason for you to FORCE yourself to be around people that consistently have shown you that they DO NOT LOVE you? FOCUS on those that show you that you MATTER to them every day of the year!!!! Embrace those you can call when you are NOT at your best and STOP breaking your neck to see people who avoid you because of birthdays and holidays...ijs. STOP making excuses for the problematic relatives/mates/friends in your life and LEAVE them.  These are people that (traditionally) do NOTHING for you BUT need and require EVERYTHING FROM YOU.   BFFR and STOP blaming BLACK women for all of your woes and shortcomings.  We are NOT in a matriarchy...STOP sneaking one in while...

Be Whole for the Holidays

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      Seasonal depression combined with one (plausibly) forcing themselves to be around family that (far too often) feel more like strangers can leave one feeling less than stellar.  Therefore it is imperative for you to continue your self-care routines and allow yourself the permission to NOT be surrounded by those that you do not want to.  DNA does NOT obligate you to be in the presence of those that you have NO contact with any other day of the year.         A PHOTO OP OR PLATE OF FOOD IS NOT WORTH YOUR PEACE. 💅      Should YOU CHOOSE to celebrate during this holiday season, choose the options that bring you joy.  Embark upon festivities with people that are beneficial to YOUR mental well-being.  Break the generational gaslighting of, "holidays are for the family."  Remind yourself that when it comes to family...EVER DAY should be for the family, NOT merely the day that revolves around collecting trink...

Rage Farming (Off the Backs of Black Women) for Clout

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       It may come as a shock to many of you that you can obtain a TALENT to gain followers and clout online (and in real life).  There is NO need to use Black women as the main crop for your rage farming .  The obsession and jealousy surrounding women that are constantly told that we are NOT feminine and are less than others in society are astronomical.         Therefore...explain to me how the default damsel in distress and beauty standard needs Black women to progress currently.      I guess the sisterhood of the othering and their counterparts would instead impose upon the community built by Black women cloaked fully in victimhood instead of cultivating personality traits.  Invoking willful ignorance as a matter of attempting to "cover" for the heinous rhetoric and actions utilized as the key to the vehicle driving traffic to their platforms is NOT A FLEX.  Additionally, fetishizing Black men (knowing th...

There is NO Conspiracy in Depression

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      Unfortunately, we bid a final farewell to Stephen "tWitch" Boss due to depression taking the lead in his life.  Due to far too many people within society NOT understanding depression (and functionality), have began the average of conspiracy theories are flooding in.        When someone's battle comes to an end... there is NO need to formulate excuses for YOUR comfort.      The people you see smiling the most could be feeling the most alone and lost.  Appearing happy is NOT an indicator of a lack of mental health issues.  It amazes me that society can understand the concepts of masking or faking it when it comes to RELATIONS and RELATIONSHIPS, but NOT regarding mental health.  Society places a horrific stigma on BOTH mental health issues as well as therapy.      So you can't express your struggles with an ailment NOR can you find solace in treatment.  Way to go society. 😏   ...

Why Aren't We Demanding to be Protected & Served?

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      By now, many people are aware that the Supreme Court of the United States has determined that the police have NO obligation to protect or serve the public.  Why are we so "ok" with this? Why is there more outcry demanding that the bullies in blue are protected and respected over the general public? Why are we not collectively demanding for those that we FUND protect and serve us regardless of our "lot in life"? We watch and cackle as "Karens" demand service from teachers, retail workers, and the public at large as we allow ourselves to be mistreated by PUBLIC SERVANTS.😏       What brand of torture kink has consumed this country?      Defunding the police is a viable option... but let us NOT forget to enforce our service and protection needs during the process.  BIPOC and LGBTQIA+ parents should no longer be forced to teach their children how to interact with law enforcement in order to remain ALIVE.  No longer sh...

USA: One Giant Grift

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      The USA does an impeccable job when it comes to marketing itself to the globe.  Per its propaganda train, this is the freest and greatest place on this third rock from the sun.  This is the land where you can become a success with just a touch of hard work and dedication.  😏 Oh but once you enter this hellscape of a land....you will QUICKLY notice that none of what you were sold was within the realm of reality.     This is the land of the grift and the home of the damned.      The self-proclaimed leading character of North America REFUSES to confront (or admit to) its racist origins.  The top 1% of the country has impressively convinced (most) others that their greed is healthy and FAR from TOXIC.  Residents are indoctrinated to loathe assistance and work themselves into the grave for corporations that see them as nothing more than the pathway to favorable profit margins.         Far from th...

When Will the Military STOP Being Your Pawns?

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      With the prisoner swap that resulted in the release of Brittney Griner from a Russian prison, we are ONCE AGAIN reminded that conservatives are too eager to utilize the US military as political pawns.  They ONLY speak about protecting and respecting them when combating members of the BIPOC community desiring equity or receiving basic human graces.  😏 Otherwise,  pseudo-patriots vote against anything that will benefit active duty members and veterans faster than Trump will lie and grift.        It is the WEIRDEST fandom I have ever witnessed in my existence.      Conservatives will bootlick for the military performatively in public while in private... they work to make their lives as miserable as possible.  The US military is vaulted at marginalized communities as if they were human grenades.  Imagine being manipulated into an organization that reveres you as NOT human under the guise of being touted a...

What Happened to "Their Country, Their Rules"

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      Since February when Brittney Griner was first detained in Russia, a certain portion of the US population has been screaming, "oh well, their country, their rules." In the months to follow, they have added to their script, "don't do the crime..."  It has now evolved into, "how do we leave a Marine for a pot-smoking basketball player?"       But when was the last time any of them recalled that Paul Whelan was imprisoned there?       I would gather very FEW due to the fact that they have elevated him to a war hero and saint that needs to be rescued.  😂 The EX-Marine CLERK wrote BAD checks, forged documents, and attempted to steal $10k while serving (as a reservist) in Iraq.  😏 The Canadian immigrant has TRIPLE citizenship and thought he could supplement his civilian income by cosplaying James Bond.  An ASSOCIATE of HIS ensured that the spy game he wanted to play would be a short game.  Whelen was on "their l...

A Black Candidate Does NOT Guarantee the Black Vote

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 Dear GOP,      I realize that within your hyper-racist minds, you think that Black people merely navigate life as a monolith.  We DO NOT.  We look for substance when choosing who will represent the Black diaspora within the confines of the US borders.  Simply plucking an athlete or an entertainer that happens to be Black is NOT enough to sway the entirety of the diaspora to become lemmings for your anti-best interests platform.  We are MORE than our skin.  What connects us is far deeper than you could ever fathom.      Hopefully, the election between Pastor Raphael Warnock and Herschel Walker taught you something.  You paraded Walker about KNOWING that he was NOT qualified for the position of Senator.  You merely utilized him as a token to smokescreen Black people into believing that you are no longer racist. 😏 Walker was LITERALLY saddled with "handlers" (Ted Cruz & Lindsey Graham) due to his utter incompetence...

White Men: There is NO Oppression Olympics

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       White men, why are you fighting so hard to present yourself as an oppressed class within the United States?       Your ancestors created a foundation that you maintain vigorously for you to succeed... even in mediocrity.  So how is this UNALTERED system now oppressing you? How sirs? history in the United States has been watered down and whitewashed in order to make you FEEL superior.  You are the default in a land you stole and could NOT survive on your own.  Your ancestors amassed wealth from the labor of those they stole and oppressed creating a yellow brick road to success for you.  You have a LARGE headstart over marginalized communities.  HOW ARE YOU OPPRESSED?       Are you confusing changing times with a reversal of fates?      Are you viewing accountability and equity (slowly) seeping into the fabric of the US as oppression? Have you become so delusional due to no longer being a...

The Drag Distraction

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             The "Protect the Children" crowd has ONCE again decided to smokescreen and distract from the actual dangers to children.  They have chosen NOT to protest the NRA and require gun reform to remove school shootings from existence.  They are NOT protesting churches that were RECENTLY exposed to covering up the molestation of children.  They do NOT have food/clothing drives to ensure that no child (in their area) goes without.       What are they wound up about? DRAG QUEENS.       Per White supremacist "Christians" ENTERTAINERS are the greatest threat to children within this ill-fated country. 😏 Hair, makeup, music, choreography, and lipsyncing somehow goes against their morality.  To them, their tyrannical beliefs are the only ones that should be honored and all else is blasphemy.  Let us ignore that they are NOT following the tenets of the guidebook that they (consistently) weapon...

Cut the Kanye Coddling

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            Is FAAAARRRRRRRRR past time to STOP giving excuses for the antics, actions and speech of Kanye "Ye" West.  The passing of his mother DID NOT drive him into a crisis.  His divorce did NOT cause him to change his personality.  LISTEN to what is being revealed from behind the Wizard's curtain... HE HAS ALWAYS BEEN THIS WAY.   He has simply amassed enough wealth that he believes that he has the protection of the complexion he covets.       West has an OBSESSION with Hitler, antisemitism and WHITE supremacy.  NO MANNER OF MENTAL ILLNESS TURNS A PERSON INTO A RAGING BIGOT!!!! Repeat that until you FINALLY get it.      Also, STOP with the whole "they are targeting a Black man" bs.  He himself only claims blackness when he needs to be bailed out from his poor decisions fueled by his desire to cosplay what he THINKS a White man is.  He ONLY acknowledges that his children are black whe...

Ask Colonizers About Disparities NOT Us

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      Global media often causes me to give them a side eye due to the questions that they CHOOSE to ask melanated persons.  They will sprinkle microaggressions while asking about disparities, racism, etc., YET they NEVER seem to have the same inquisitive energy for the descendants, relatives, and friends of those continuing the tradition of oppression.  Tom Brady hasn't been asked about Jerry Jones appearing in a photo chronically the racism within the US, but LeBron James was asked about the postings of Kyrie Irving.  Tyler Adams was asked why he was representing a country that discriminates against Black people.  Were athletes from Iran asked why they still reside there?      It has ALWAYS been my stance that if you are genuine in wanting change, you address those that can invoke it.  If you want to know why something STILL exists, ask the people protecting and perpetuating it.  Therefore, why are REPORTERS not seeking out Wh...

Passport Bros: Prepared to NEVER Takeoff

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      During my existence on this third rock from the sun, I have NEVER seen people who are walking the walk cease their forward movement to scream about walking. 😏 What I have witnessed are people that are pleading to be seen by proclaiming they are making moves that they will never.  This brings us to the "Passport bros".  The collection of men that believe that they MUST (finally) obtain a passport and venture outside of US borders in an attempt to (successfully) find a submissive second mother that they can have relations.        I know they claim they are looking for love...listen to the words that actually leap from their lips.      These elder incels have yet to make the decision to self-reflect, seek therapy, and relinquish their "mommy issues" leaving them void of healthy relationships with desired partners.  These are also men that tend to "shoot their shot" at (potential) partners that are far beyond their...

Womanhood is NOT Motherhood

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      Take a breath.  Before you decide to let the world know that your entire identity is wrapped within being a mother... relax and read.  Now...can motherhood be A PART of your individual journey of womanhood? Absolutely.  Are you NOT a woman should you not be able to give birth or choose to be childfree? Absolutely NOT.  STOP determining your worth as a woman via your willingness to be an (unpaid) incubator, nursemaid, and nanny.         Children are NOT a personality trait nor are they tokens that increase your level of womanhood.        Womanhood is an INDIVIDUAL journey and what makes YOU feel like a woman is all your own.  There is NO mold that one must force themselves into in order to be a woman.  STOP falling into the "new mommy" (with benefits) box that incel adjacent men (historically) try to place us all into.  Why are you crafting your existence in accordance with those tha...